By Vinita Singh Markam
Sometimes we all feel cloudy, unable to see the clear blue sky and of course not initially but with time our urge to have clear vision starts to pop out.
No worries it happens to all of us, these are some points in our life where we take more than enough time to figure out our decisions to make, and at these moments we are like ‘oh my god’, ‘nothing can be done’ ……… ‘There is no way’ ……. ‘Oh! We are thinking silly’……… ‘It’s impossible’………. ‘Its not done like this’ ….. and of course this one, from so much time , I have been confuse , probably I can’t be a good decision maker anymore OR maybe I’m not worth it. Okay, this is called feeling lost & becoming stuck in life & this was my way of describing this problem in short because going through it, is much more than this, I think we all can understand because once in life we all experience it OR we might feel/see people around us are experiencing it.
Fine , it is like one needs to make a way OR a decision , and we are unable to do it easily and starts feeling like ‘getting late in life’ OR ‘Stuck’ .
Okay I’d like to help here, there can be some scenarios.
Firstly, do you have a habit of indecisiveness on any basis since childhood , if yes , you need to 1st release it and commit to change yourself here, try to make decisions on your own with of course listening opinions , but without depending OR attaching . One thing you can also do is making decision on the basis of options but not more than2/3.
Secondly, u know u are a decisive person but certainly at some point unable to make one. Here, 1stly calm down, fine u are going through something like this, don’t stress-out because if u are in stress there will be no clarity. 2nd do not depress, like u can’t make a decision here.
If generally you don’t get problems in clearing things out then this situation must be one of the unencountered point in your life OR a turning point in your life.
Here you have to be wise , sit in silence (don’t isolate self from people completely for some time), be calm , believe in yourself and start checking your mind & heart OR u can say your intuition, for the decision u have to make , & taking time here is part of whats happening with u .
Interesting No! Because this not happens every time so, here don’t be depress & be positive.
Figuring out & making decision in situations like this , takes time & days , u need to be patient & calm.
Things to Apply:-
Know your mind & heart, what they want.
Make alignment between your mind & heart.
You should not have more than 2 or 3 options
Make decisions independently & confidently.
Don’t worry for future.
“One needs to believe oneself & discover life
without fear”.
Don’t think of others.
One’s clear, don’t further waste your time.
Do this, with time-intervals, thinking while doing what you like, doing this can also bring wonders.
Last scenario is you need to make decision quickly , here 1st observe your situation carefully , go with your instincts , but here u should keep 2 options , be decisive and responsible with one option till the end.
“keep hope”
“Clouds can never stop the blue sky to shine again”
By Vinita Singh Markam