Self Improvement

By ILma Fatima

As we all know personality plays an important part in our life as a human being. Personality depends on how we treat people around, how we talk, the way we express ourselves. Self evolvement is one of the ways to develop our personalities. To evolve your personality is a necessary thing. You get to know yourself. Things which you lack and things which you have in abundance becomes clear in your mind. You get to know your new qualities. 

Five points given below that might help you to evolve yourself. 

1) Know Yourself! 

Explore yourself and your inner ideas and judging your own thinking doesn't make you judgemental. Judging your own thinking and what you think about certain things help you distinguish between a negative and positive thinking and accordingly you can work on yourself. For your self evolvement it is compulsory to stop procrastinating and overthinking because procrastination mainly leads to negative behaviour and overthinking leads to negative thoughts. Try to be optimistic as much as you can. 

2) Stop judging people! 

Self evolvement is not always about changing yourself. It is about making a better version of yourself, it's about crossing your limits and 

yourself, it's about crossing your limits and thinking beyond what you can think or in other simpler words increase your limits which will in turn increase your capabilities. One of the important rule of self evolvement is to stop judging the people around you. The time and energy you spend on looking and being concerned about what others do should be ceased. Spend sometime on yourself. 

3) Career and Life Goals! 

Career and life goals play a vital role in developing your personality and in evolving yourself. Stop being worried about your ego and pride. The more higher goals you select, the more hardwork it will require and 

hardwork is another one of the best ways to evolve yourself. One should be least affective of the other worldly things that might be attractive. As attractive things take you away from your goals and achievements. Learn to distance yourself from the things that deviate you from your goal, learn to distance 

yourself from the things that disturb you and imbalance your mental peace. Learn to distance from your past and stop thinking about it all the time as the older pages of life never have nothing new to read or look back to. The more you'll revise your past, the more you'll feel difficult to forget it. You shouldn't be worried about what people did to you in 

your past but you should care about what you did with them. We all still have time to realize that our past doesn't matters but the deeds of the past surely matters and then you have actually nothing to bother about if your deeds are well enough. 

4) Goals with true passion and goals with fantasizing image! 

There is a difference between the goal that you choose with your own true compassion and the goal you choose with fantastic image. 

A goal with fantastic image is when you decide to do something by being impressed or being fantasized when you see others doing it, this actually happens when you see someone doing great in that field and 

emotions might awaken in you to do the same thing. 

This fantasized goal is not always original one, it is just because you lack self evolvement. This is why self evolvement is important because you actually get to know your passion and what exactly you are capable off. 

A goal chosen with true passion will tend you lose yourself and will make you work harder and greedy for it. One will not stop chasing the goal with true passion and willingness. 

5) Your Insights! 

One should be aware of his insights, have a deeper bond and understanding with 

A goal chosen with true passion will tend you lose yourself and will make you work harder and greedy for it. One will not stop chasing the goal with true passion and willingness. 

5) Your Insights! 

One should be aware of his insights, have a deeper bond and understanding with 

ownself, clear with own mindset and issues, know your essential capabilities and face your negativities with an optimistic outlook. Read yourself as you are the most inspiring story within yourself, stop always looking for inspiring people and stories outside when your story is inspiring enough to push yourself!! 

★Never be afraid of knowing yourself. Work hard for your true passion, know yourself,see your insights, know your capabilities and evolve yourself into a personality that can be looked up by other people.

By ILma Fatima