Reality Of Life

By Shovitha M

A gift given to all by god, which is called Life. Being born as a human being have its perks and one among that is the power within us that drives us to reach our dream and make it a reality. A thing that’s made in our heart supported by our imagination in our brain is what I call a Dream. For some people, dream is what they see while they are sleeping, but for the others like me, dream is a series of images, more like a video, played in our mind, that make us face all the difficult time and make us run towards that dream. Everyone in this world have such type of videos running their brain and they are willing to do anything to reach that dream of theirs, but most of them fail, cause they sacrifice their dream for others. This kind of sacrifice, is what most of them regret about. They wish they could have held a bit longer to their dream rather than surrendering themselves and sacrificing their dream for that small problem that appeared big back then. It is true that our problems appear big for us, but for others it’s a small problem because they see the problem from a distance. We are used to making a small problem into a big one, complicate our lives and get stressed out. Instead of breaking down whenever you face challenges, you should sit alone and try thinking about life, finding ways to pass the test put to us by the divine god. Reflecting one self and their life always gives us a way to face the problem. If you are clear with what you want to achieve in life, then you will surely find a way. When you dedicate to that dream of yours, then the universe itself will help you reach it.

Those who succeed in life, never let go any opportunities and never thing about others opinion. Those who give back to the world, grows even more. Dreams can become a reality if you wait patiently and disciplined. Always be ready to learn new things and take small steps towards your dream rather than simply staying in your comfort zone waiting for a perfect opportunities to knock your door. You should create your own opportunities. No one is going to come and walk you through the path to your dream, instead you should carve your own path to your heart desired destination. Life always throws dirt at you, but you have to wipe all that and go from nothing to something great. Every lives matter and every living being have a purpose to fulfill in their lives. We are created to do something in life that’s designed by God. Do you think that god made us and the whole universe just for fun? No, right. We believe that god have created each one of us to serve a greater cause, which we might not know but few find their lives purpose and goes in the direction they are passionate about. Those are the ones that make their dreams a reality.

In difficult time, there are some people who never leave us and it a blessing. In life, you meet people who either change your life or you are the one to change theirs. Some people around us wait for the perfect moment to pull you down and most of the time you don’t notice them, cause they might be within your family or friends or someone you believe wishes you good. So you fall in their trap and gets hurt, but this is where few lose courage and want to give up everything in life. Some even go to extreme point where they end their lives. This is what life is, we are being continuously put to test and are meant to stronger than before to face more challenges that come our way. You have to be that strong and brave person to who change their dream to reality. It is not easy, but you should walk past everything and shine in that darkness. Like a star, you have to bun in order to shine brighter. Face the challenges and build confidence to continue running after the dream. There is a beauty in life. You get to see both the good and bad thing in life, but mostly all the good things comes after those bad times, just like the light that follows darkness. Life always gives you a second chance and you should give your best shot.

God sometimes bring back the person who betrayed you to your life, to test if you believe them and ready to fall in their trap or are you aware of their intentions and ready to avoid such people from your life to lead a better life. The difficult times are meant to teach us about life and we have to accept life as it is. Unless and until you learn your lessons and get back on your feet, you cannot overcome the challenges. When you fall down, your beloved one will be there to lend a hand, but no one can put you back on your feet, unless it’s you, who decides to face the problem one on one and pull yourself up. Life is complicated and understanding that is even more complicated.

Life is full of choices. The live you make are purely based on your decisions and your actions. If you know what’s best for you and not do something cause someone told you to then you will have a beautiful life. Before making a decision, you have to think 1000 times or even more, and go all-in if that’s what you want to do and plan a back-up, in case something goes wrong, so you don’t break down when you face a problem. Take full responsibility for the decisions you make in life. Even though the choices you made turn out to be bad, face the consequences and don’t blame it on god or on others.

If you are in the darkness for a long time, god definitely will shine light on you, but only when the right time comes, unless you don’t lose hope and faith. God only knows what to give you and when to give you something that your heart desires, but for that you have to believe in god and his timings. You can’t get anything in life without paying for it. You have to sacrifice sleep and many more to chase your dream and ready to pay the price. Most of us, tend to not let go of our past and regret the decisions and mistake we did, but when you let go of the past, god gives you a better life and even the thing you never even asked for. He will bless you more that what you asked for. If something doesn’t go your way, just remember an ultimate power is watching over you and will only do the best thing for.

One should always remember that karma is a boomerang. You reap what you sow. You always get back what you give to the universe. So try to always stay positive and avoid negative things or people who lower you self-esteem and self-confidence, who always says you cannot do this and that. Show them what you can do. Show them your full potential and don’t stop yourself from doing what you love. It’s your one and only chance to make your life the way you want it to be, but for that you should to have faith, be patient and give your best in whatever you do. No one can stop you, but you. Don’t every underestimate yourself. Just accept yourself and start loving yourself. Express your love to the world and you will realize that your perspective to life changes. Don’t try to compete with others but yourself. Become a better version of yourself and you will get on the right path to your destination. Once you have reached the height, don’t forget where you came from and those who were with you, when you had nothing. Be humble and help those who are in need. Helping others gives you satisfaction and happiness. Laugh every day and also make others laugh.

Everyone gets to live only one life with your current appearance and identity, and no one knows what’s after death. So live every day to the fullest, happily and radiate love as much as possible. Show love and kindness to all. People don’t remember how rich and famous you are but they remember the help, love and care you give them. You will live longer in peoples heart, even after you die. You will be remembered by others by the actions you do that makes the world a better place.

Imagine you are in the last few minutes of life, what do you what to feel, happiness or sadness, anger and regrets? You want to rewind the beautiful, memorable and thrilling moments or the life which is the last thing you want to think about, which is sad. You have to decide whether you want a happy ending or a sad ending. You are the master of your life, so write your own fate and never give up on your dreams or your life. Plant trees which saves our planet and all of us. Every life matters! Go out there and make a change that matters.

By Shovitha M