Perception Of People With No Eyes

By Abhijith Nair Ac

It all started along and prevailed around us for years and it is still there. You know what? It is the eyes of the people who likes more to mind our way of life than themselves .Once upon a time we used to have a society which doesn’t care about us and at present we have a society that cares about us much more than anything in a negative manner though.

It is okay to have different perceptions about life but it is not so okay to have perceptions about the relationships and bonds that we have with other people .Judgement and perception are two different things. Judging someone or not judging someone can be in your hands but having a wrong perception about something which you didn’t have any pre-knowledge about would be a myth .In our society freedom to express ourselves is being deteriorating at a fast pace. Whenever someone wanted to express themselves they will be criticized for the bad reasons than to be appreciated for the good reasons.

Society cannot accept change because society is what a group of people and their thinking patterns as a whole. Why cannot a society accept a boy and girl to have a relationship other than love? Why is the society undermining friendships? Why is the perception of the society variable when a woman wear something that is comfortable to themselves? Taking the example from many incidents of sexual abuse and verbal abuse around us ,we still cannot accept the fact that Society still needs a larger change.

From our childhood through our upbringings we have heard from our family and friends that love happens only with a boy and a girl. We all now knows that love is a beautiful word and we have the freedom to love anyone in the world. It can be between any sex who has a heart to live and a mind to think. But still there are many people who cannot or who are shy to say the concept of “Gay” or “Lesbians” or any other sex.

Do you still feel we have the freedom to express ourselves the way we want in the current society? We don’t. Because there are still barriers around us disguised in the form of some people who would not allow us to fight our wars. Every home has issues. Every people will be fighting a war with themselves. The society needs a slight change in the perception of lenses we use. We all need to fight the cataracts in our lenses and we need to live our life the way it is. We need to stop telling people what to do.

We shouldn’t make someone live their life the way we want them to live like. Let everyone have their own life and let us not care more about their upbringings or the hassles they pass through their days. The niche help we can do to them is by not adding up to their woes with our wrong perceptions. We can all embrace and we still can be ourselves if we put our heart to act rather than the clouded perceptions we tend to have through our upbringings.

By Abhijith Nair Ac