If You Adore Her

By Tania Basak

You know, she is unflatteringly crazy about blogging and loves to scribble about her messed up thoughts through writing, and this is her only Passion,give her mettle,when everyone starts saying that it's not her cup of tea, when she starts to lose her confidence. Brace her up by holding her hands tightly and saying that " I know that you can and you will".You know that she talks less but keeps clackling for hours like 98.3 Radio Mirchi, whenever you are around her. Don't feel annoyed, it's just that she loves talking to you.Have you ever paid attention to her when she endeavours to grab your attention on a video call? Despite of saying no for a thousand times she keeps taking screenshots during the video calls.Dont get irritated, it's just that she loves doing it only with you. She starts wincing whenever you don't answer her phone calls, she starts to feel irritated whenever you left her seen on whatsapp. Don't think that she is over clingy it's just that she genuinely cares for you.If she gets up early in the morning and makes your favourite food but it tastes atrocious, then don't shout, instead of snubbing, appreciate her sweet effort.She is fucking flaky about you. She does not want to go to a five star hotel on a date,she does not want those dare gifts and costly diamond jewelleries from you, for her you are precious, nothing else. Surprise your love with her favourite chocolates, with an unexpected road side date, with those coffee torse candies and kit-kat , it automatically brings a smile on her face, yes she is happy in little things. Her eyes start shimmering whenever you look at her, the resplendence of her face increases ten times more, whenever you say those alluring words, "I love you."

The way a slobbery child persists for a toy just like that she wants your time, your attention, your love, yes, sometimes she behaves crazily and childishly just to be with you.Yes, she becomes a little bit stubby and intractable at times but she knows very well that only you will come up and lighten up her mood, only you will handle all her tantrums,Yes these all she needs. You know that she is a namby-pamby ,if she gets sloopy, starts to blubber and brabble with you over little things, if she starts nagging you in middle of your work don't get irritated, don't push her way, instead, clasp her tightly and say,

"I am all yours, do whatever you want to do".Listen to her diligently when she talks about her likes and dislikes, when she shares every little thing with you.

You know she is not that strong which she pretends to be, it only means that she trusts you more than anything and anyone else. If you really love her then don't leave her alone in her worst days when she is emotionally shattered,when she is clamouring like a 10 year old child, when she is almost breaking down, pull her close and lock her in your arms tightly, you know that you are the safest place for her, snog her hard unless she forgets all her fears, tell her not to worry about anything, tell her that you are not going to leave her, look into her eyes ,kiss them and tell her that-

"You are the one and only person who really matters to me and I don't want to lose you".

"NEVER"...

By Tania Basak