DEAR MEN - By Kashish Ruchal

Written By: Kashish Ruchal

Category: POETRY

Competition: Poetry and Creative Writing Competition 2026

Kashish Ruchal's poem "DEAR MEN" is a heartfelt submission in the Poetry category of the Poetry and Creative Writing Competition 2026 organized by Hashtag Kalakar. This poignant piece delves into the societal expectations placed on men and challenges the narrative of stoicism, advocating for emotional understanding and empathy. Kashish's contribution reflects a deep sensitivity towards the theme of emotional vulnerability, urging readers to reconsider traditional gender roles.

About the Work

"DEAR MEN" by Kashish Ruchal is a powerful commentary on the emotional struggles faced by men due to societal pressures. The poem uses evocative imagery and a conversational tone to question why men are often denied the space to express their emotions. It highlights the universal need for understanding and support, portraying a world where emotional vulnerability is not seen as a weakness but a shared human experience.

DEAR MEN

Original Submission by Kashish Ruchal

# DEAR MEN :

Har baar hame ye sun-ne milta hai,

Ki tum to ladhke ho, ki agar tum royoge to family ko kese sambhaloge,

Tumahari to responsibility hai, chahe kujh bhi ho jaye apne aapko weak dikhane ka scope kyu chodhoge ?

Jab koi ye kahta hai na, ldhka hoker rona nahi chahiye,

Har situations ka samna karne ka dum hona chahiye,

Kyu… ? , vo insaan nahi hai ?

Unke dil me jaan nahi hai ? ,

Unke ander emotions, feelings, dard ki kya koi pahchaan nahi hai? ,

Jese ek ladhki chahti hai na unhe ek bohot understanding person mile unki life me chahe vo bhai ho, papa ho, ya phir unka partner ho,

Aese hi yaar, ek ladhka bhi to ye cheez deserve karta hai na, ki yaar,

Usse bhi koi samjhne wali ho,

Ki….. usse bhi koi samjhne wali ho,

Pure din kaam karke aate hai, bas koi pyaar se gale lagane wali ho,

Jo bas unhe dekhkar hi samjhne wali ho, ki vo khamosh kyu hai unse koi pujhne wali ho,

Ki unhe batane wali ho, unhe samjhane wali ho,

Ki koi baat nahi , ki….., koi baat nahi,

Ki haar gye tum ek din se,

Haar gye tum dhan se,

Haar gye tum man se,

Haar gye tum lagataar koshish karte rahne ke karan se,

To kya hua, to………….., kya hua,

Aaj nahi to kal hamare bhi din chamkenge na sunhere pal se,

Saath milker sudharenge na hamare halat vishwaash ke jal se,

Or mai to hamesha or hamesha tumahare saath hi hu, sunlo tum, kaan khol ke hamare dil se,

Hamare dil se.

About the Competition

The Poetry and Creative Writing Competition 2026 by Hashtag Kalakar is a prestigious event that celebrates the art of written expression. This competition provides a platform for poets and writers to showcase their creativity and engage with diverse themes. Participants from various regions contribute their unique voices, making it a vibrant celebration of literary talent.

We extend our heartfelt thanks to Kashish Ruchal for sharing "DEAR MEN" with us. This poem is a touching addition to the Poetry and Creative Writing Competition 2026, and we appreciate Kashish's efforts to bring attention to important social themes. We look forward to more inspiring works from Kashish in the future.

About Hashtag Kalakar

Hashtag Kalakar is a creative platform dedicated to providing artists, writers, singers and other creative talents with opportunities to showcase their work and reach wider audiences through competitions, features and creative initiatives.