Being Insecure About Insecurities.

By Pranoti Bhave

I’m insecure about a lot of things. I don’t know about you, but I need constant validation from other to make me feel good about something. It took me 18 years to realise this, I blame no-one but myself for this. I am the one who gave others the authority to validate me. I realised when I keep giving others the authority, mine is lost on the way. You always keep fearing that validation, which makes you even more insecure about yourself. Don’t you think this vicious cycle needs to be stopped? I don’t need that, YOU don’t need that. Why can’t I just fall down like everyone is destined to fall down once in a while and then tell myself to get up, to be the brave girl that I am. Why can’t I look in the mirror and tell myself that I am the most beautiful girl? Why do we need anyone else to show us the truth that we already know, you already know the truth, now just start believing in them. So, here’s the secret to stop being insecure about your insecurities. Maybe it’s time that we stop for these validations and give ourselves some TED talks.

By Pranoti Bhave